A mother's joy begins when a new life is stirring inside...when a tiny heartbeart is heard for the first time, and a playful kick reminds her that she is never alone~

I am finally pregnant!!! Yay! I am not sure who is more excited between me and James. It feels like we have been waiting for this for forever!! And now it is really here and happening!! James has been smiling every day of every hour since we found out, and it makes me fall in love with him all over again. To wake up in the mornings and know there is 3 of us laying in bed finally absolutely takes my breath away.

      I cannot believe the journey I have taken, I look back and no without a doubt everything has happened for a reason. That reason being this baby, this blessing of having an eternal family. I could not be more lucky than to have James, the man of my dreams, to share this amazing miracle with. My life is so perfect <3 I am also so grateful to the Savior and his blessings. The gospel is a truly extraordinary thing. So powerful and so true. 

       This baby is already so loved, and I am so excited to be a mother. To hold that baby in my arms and look into its sweet little eyes knowing that it is my job to care, love, and teach. I am so in love already!!!

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.~

Lately I have had the burning question in my head. It's with me everywhere I go.... WHO CAN I INSPIRE? This leads to further questions, how can I inspire? Have I already inspired? And what will become of it? I do not know why or how or what, but I feel like I am suppose to change someone's life.. And I don't mean in a little way like smiling at someone who is having a bad day. I mean influencing their life in a HUGE way! Do I sound crazy yet :-) so hear I go trying in my first attempt to inspire or to help someone in a HUGE way or maybe even a little way ;-)

Lately I have been able to gain a new perspective on my life. The life I was living a year ago compared to the life I am living now is completely different. I always had this negative perception when I was asked about getting pregnant and my misscariage, I always walked away from those conversations feeling somewhat offended. But now I realize that I can use my story to inspire others in more ways than just one.
For instance; when I got pregnant I lost just about every friend I had. Then to my devistation I miscarried. When I miscarried I wanted so badly to have a friend there to hug me while I cried, or to tell me they were there for me... But plain and simple I did not. I wished so badly someone would see how bad I was truly hurting instead of judging my situation. I hope people who are not pregnant, but may have a friend who is pregnant or who has had a baby in high school to just take a step back and put your self in the shoes of that girl. Run through how you would feel if you were put in that situation. ( I bet you just judged again and thought you would never have sex so would never put yourself in that position guess what no one is perfect) I would encourage you to befriend someone in this position instead of delete them out of your life. Even something as simple as an email to let them no you are thinking of them would help I promise!
Also I hope one day we can all understand that other peoples expierence can actually teach us valuable life lessons. I loved seminary in high school, but dropped out early. I am sure they did not mean to make me feel awkward, but I was put in that position. My circumstances were different I do understand that. Yes I was a married high school student in seminary, and yes I had gotten pregnant and miscarried. I hope that church members can realize everyone has challenges, but it is up to us as members of the church to uplift and accept people with no judgement. I believe and no that God is the one and only perfect judge. Leave it to Him to judge people and instead lend a helping hand to someone who is struggling, you never know but you could very well be the person that helps them back on there feet. Realize that we were sent to earth expecting to have challenges put in front of us. I know we came to this earth knowing it would not be easy. The world seems to be getting worse and worse when it comes to temptation, but the truth is that it is a fact of this life no matter where you go or how much you try to hide from it, it is sadly apart of the world. So instead of judging and trying to hide you and others from it, LEARN FROM IT! Regardless of if it is your mistake or someone else's I promise you can take something from it.
So I encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and to really get to know someone that you maybe would never think to talk to. They may even seem like they have the perfect life, but they really could be struggling and need someone to let them know they care. I encourage you also to make wise decisions, think three times before you act on a tough decision. And to everyone out there who is struggling, know that I think you are an amazing and beautiful person! Know that I have been there and I have felt that hopelessness you may be feeling, but I promise you with all my heart there is hope and happiness and I also promise that you can find it if you look hard. Never ever give up of your dreams. Tomorrow is a new day so wake up and hold your head high, but a big smile on the beautiful face, and follow your dreams!!

*I will wait here for you all my life*

Today I wait...
I wait for my husband to get home from work: Although this job has been a major blessing to our family, it is about killing me! I keep asking myself if it is a bad thing for me to be so dependent on my husband. I honestly do not know how to keep my day going when he is gone... it really is rather pathetic, but at least he knows I love him! I am a very quiet and shy person or as some people would call it an introvert. I do not like big crouds, or complicated situations. I am very fine with sitting in my house and reading a great book. Or snuggling up to my husband... this means that when James is gone at work for 24 hours or sometimes three days then I have to go places and do things on my own... without him! And I am not liking that one bit!
I wait for a baby: Is it a bad thing that I am baby hungry at 18... and that I have been since I was probably 5?! Ha the funny thing is I really am not kidding. It is rather an odd thing. I have had it planned since I was little that I would get married young and have kids young, and sure enough here I am married young, but still no babies. I know call me a baby or whatever you want to call me, but I am so ready to have a baby it is not even funny! James and I have been trying to concieve for a year now and it is starting to get really hard for me to not be discouraged. Everyone tells me I need to be patient that I am only 18 and I have the rest of my life ahead of me. (I think that everyone says this when something is not going my way) And I do understand there point but I the same time I feel like I am so ready. I have learned that I really am just not a patient person.... I always thought I was, but turns out guess what I am not. I swear that everyone around me is having babies and here I am left in the dust. The only thing that brings me reassurance is that I know the lord has a way of making things happen at the right time. I sometime do not understand, but I always look back years later and think OH NOW I GET IT!! Story of my life :D I also am so happy that regardless if we need to adopt or we finally do concieve that either way that baby is mine. And was always meant to be mine. I am so thankfully for The Temple and the opportunity I have to be with my family forever.
Now that I have done all my complaining I realize that I do not wait for as many things as I feel that I do. I just am so impatient! It is a good thing my hunny is patient because we may be in a world of hurt if it were not for him.
Just a little update though since I have not wrote on here for a long time. James and I moved into a place a couple of months ago... it was nice and really big and we absolutely loved it! Our land lords were so great! It was actually a house just behind theres so we shared the same yard more or less. The lady ended up being my visiting teacher companion and although she does not know it she influenced my life a ton! I do not come by very many friends anymore so when I finally get enough courage to make one they always seem to influence me greatly. But now we are moved out of that house and living with my in laws. We decided it was in our best interest to take this summer and SAVE SAVE SAVE money. So here we are. My brave mother and father in law were brave enough to let us move in as well as my brother in law and his wife! So it is a full house, but it sure is great to be with family. James also got a job in swan valley and it pays oh so good! We got a pay check and he only worked three days, and I kid you not it was more money than we have made in 5 months. All I can say is what a blessing to us. James is such a dedicated husband and never fails at blowing me away. Not many men can do the kind of work he does with so much passion. And although at times I get frustrated I am always so greatful I have a husband like him! I have taken up crocheting and am loving it! This also means that I am now selling my items. I am doing the farmers market this year... which brings me to another exciting thing! I am doing it with my dad, we have not been close for years and lately we have gotten really close. I love him so much and feel super bumbed that I ever had to miss out on such a neat man! But I am going to make up for lost time and make this relationship that I know have with him great!

Idaho Falls Temple. James and I' sealing on November 5th 2011

I just thought I would post some picture of the day we got sealed. It was amazing to see how many people came! :D I was so worried all week long for this day to come, and then it came..... I was so at peace the second it began, which really is an amazing thing for me! I am such a worry wart and James has helped me get over this fear.... although it is not even close to being diminished I have made a little dent in trying to not be this way. The temple has simply blessed me :D

For some silly reason all I have been worrying about is what my kids will think when they see their parents pictures. Will they wonder for one why mommy has a strapless dress in some pictures, and then in the pictures in the temple she looks different? Will it be hard for me to explain to them that mommy and daddy were at different times in their life? That now we understant, and will they understand? All of these things have crossed my mind, and although I am worried about it, I have no doubt that they will not understand. I know that they will! If anything I think I will have an advantage to it all, because I have experienced going through hard trails, and also experience the wonderful blessings of the temple. I hope that when I have kids I am able to guide them to the right path, and to teach them what I know to be true. :D

I was amazed at all the people who came to support me :D It was great to be able to hug all of my friends, and my mom and Kevin. They were a great help throughout it :) It is interesting to look through this photo and see each persons face, and know exactly how they helped me get where I am today. I am excited to tell my kids just what each person means to me! <3

I do not think I will ever be able to say enough about my amazing husband..... He is simply an amazing man. I know he does not realize it yet... but I cannot wait until we start having kids, he is going to be an amazing daddy!

 As I said before, I have been worrying about how I will explain everything to my kids. It is odd the way that I feel about things, but I feel like James and I have grown together in way that I never thought possible. I honestly look back and wonder how we ever made it without the blessings that we now have. It made me sad to think that my little girls could not wear my wedding dress when they get married so I sat and thought long and hard on that one. My conclusion was that I will make all of my kids blessing dresses out of my wedding dress. :D I love this idea, and cannot wait for that day to come.

 James and I want kids so stinking bad... well ok maybe I do more, but you know what I mean :D I have been really nervous about trying to have kids again, ya know after what happened last time. I really just do not want to go through that hurt ever again.. but I know the lord will bless us both, and when the time is right we will be blessed with a baby. Even though I know this to be true.... I still cannot wait <3 :-D

 It was stinkin cold that day, and not only James and I thought we were going to freeze, but so did our photographer. It was my cousin Annie who took our photos, and I have to say she did a lovely job! Thanks Annie :D

"It is in the home that our behavior is most significant. It is the place where our actions have the greatest impact, for good or ill. Sometimes we are so much at home that we no longer guard our words. We forget simple civility. If we are not on guard, we can fall into the habit of criticizing one another, losing our tempers, or behaving selfishly. Because they love us, our spouses and children may be quick to forgive, but they often carry away in silence unseen injuries and unspoken heartache... When we feel anger or contention in our homes, we should immediately recognize what power has taken control of our lives and what Satan is endeavoring to accomplish. Solomon provided us this wise formula: 'A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger' (Prov. 15:1). Our home should ideally be a refuge where each member feels safe, secure, loved, and insulated from harsh criticism and contention that we so often encounter in the world."
--Elder Wayne S. Peterson, "Our Actions Determine Our Character," Ensign, Nov. 2001, 84

"The heart is a tender place. It is sensitive to many influences, both positive and negative. It can be hurt by others. It can be deadened by sin. It can be softened by love. Early in our lives, we learn to guard our hearts. It is like we erect a fence around our hearts with a gate in it. No one can enter that gate unless we allow him or her to."
--Gerald N. Lund, "Opening Our Hearts", Ensign, May 2008, 32–34

I love my life, and my family. I am so greatful for the eternal promises that I know to be true. I am so thankful for James and the oppurtunity I have been given to find such a kind loving man. We began this Journey not really knowing where we might end up... and now look at us! This is our first major step in the right direction and we could not be happier with our decision. Call us crazy or what ever you want to call us... but this is love... and this is life. I know with all my heart that the church is true and that the lord will bless us, if we accept him. I am so excited to see what time brings, and to see what our next major step will be. But always I know we will be hand in hand together for time and all eternity <3

"If every husband and every wife would constantly do whatever might be possible to ensure the comfort and happiness of his or her companion, there would be very little, if any, divorce. Argument would never be heard. Accusations would never be leveled. Angry explosions would not occur. Rather, love and concern would replace abuse and meanness."

Today I was sealed in the LDS temple not only to my husband, but to my best friend.
I have never grown up with strong religion of any sort, in fact it was never discussed in my house. I was baptized due to my grandma making sure it happened, because she knew the importance. I realized today how truly greatful I am for everyone in my life! All the good, and also the bad. People all over have been such wonderful examples.
My Nanny :D she is so great and has been my number one example! She has taught me to never ever give up no matter how much flack she got she always stood up for the gospel. She never once folded under pressure and always kept her head held high. I love her so much and am so greatful for the example she has set for me.

Also my coaches, Coach Harry and Coach Johnson, they as well have been great examples to me! I love them so much. They never even talked about the church with me, but they always always have been amazing examples of how the Latter Day Saints act and should act. They always supported me in everything I did and more than anything, they have always believe in me! :D

Also, My girls :) You know who you are! They have also been great examples. I am so greatful for them and for there strong spirits and great attitudes. They have always been there for me to show me how to act and what I should be doing. <3 you girls!

My Husbands great family. They have shown me what a true family is. How important the gospel is to make a family run. They have taken me into their home and treated me like I have always been a part of it. I realize now that honestly they could easily have chosen to hate me, but they did the complete opposite. I am so greatful for them and everything they have taught me. I love you guys! :D

Last but not least my Husband! He has taught me things about myself that I couldn't even have imagined a year ago. He has such a strong testimony and spirit, it blows me away. He always knows the exact right thing to say when I am frustrated or if I have a question. He is my rock and I am so greatful that he is mine.... for all time and eternity :D what an amazing thing the gospel is and how greatful I am for everything. I love love loveeeee my life <3

There is no better friend than a sister. And there is no better sister than you.

 This girl on my left would be my sister Mailie LaRena Medina... I LOVE HER! She does not know it I dont think, but she absolutely amazes me! She is a strong, beautiful, and confident woman. We have had our sisterly moments plenty, but truth be told I would not change them for a thing. When I am sad she is the one I can trust. I love you Mai :D

 This was our "photoshoot" before Mai left to Denver :(

 I am still sad she is gone, she moved to Denver over a year ago and I am still not over it haha. She lives there with her hubby and is going into Elementry Education. It is crazy how time flies I remember I used to snuggle in bed with her when I got scared at night, only to have her mad that I did in the morning :D (truth be told I dont think she minded it as much as she made it out to be)

 Our time together is always a blast. When we are together we laugh uncontollably, haha Mailie has even peed her pants from laughing so hard....

 Sports together is probably where alot of our memories have been made together. Talk about an amazing athlete! She is a star. Google her name and you will see what I mean. We got the rare oppurtunity to play together in Volleyball and man was it a blast! I miss it big time. She taught me so much. How to be a leader and how to believe in myself I would not be where I am in sports without her great example.

 Tehe I always laugh at the picture. Mailie and I are honestly complete opposites, but at the same time we are exactly alike. This picture for some reason always reminds me just how alike, but also how different we are.

 I still can remember this day with her it was a blast~! We always think of random things. My favorite is when it rains we always go puddle jumping in the gutters talk about fun! I laugh cuz I bet you we will still do it when we are 80

 Denver.... this is when she fell in love with the place. We went there for volleyball and she has never stopped talking about it since.

 On the airplane..... ugh I hate airplanes. I cry everytime when I go on one. As you can see she has her earphones in cuz she does not want to hear me haha..... mean right? We joke about it now and she says she is so sorry she didnt understand that I was really scared. :D

We hate dances, well Mai does. I hate to dance but I love to get all dressed up! So we decided instead of going to the dance we would just get all dressed up and then go to the river and take pictures so thats what we did. (she also made our flowers out of tissue paper super cute.) I love my sister with all my heart! She is my hero and such an amazing woman. The memories we have made will never be understood by anyone, but me and her and I love it that way. We are dorky together, we laugh so hard we pee, we make fools of ourselves, we smile lots, laugh tons, and love eachother to peices. I love ya sis :D

I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.

Can I just first say I LOVE my husband. I am so lucky to have this guy, to call him mine oh mine!
We were married June 2, 2010 which was the best day of both of our lives. It is crazy to see know that we are getting older how nuts it is that we really got married at 16! Sometimes I don't believe it, it feels like we are already 30 haha. Regardless of our age we still have one thing that over rides everything that is.... we love. I can honestly say that I do not regret anything when it comes to James. He has made me a better person.... held my hand through rough time and has given me hope. He believes in me, he trusts me, and he loves me for me. We are not a perfect couple, we sometime argue, we sometimes don't but we do try our best everyday and we are learning together!

 Our wedding day was a day I feared would not come for a very long time. The first time I laid eyes on James I knew he was the one I wanted to marry. Yes I was only fourteen, but it didnt matter he is my soul mate and I knew it. When his skin touches mine I still get goose bumps and butterfly everytime, it doesnt matter if he hardly touches me or not I get the same feelings I got when I first met him and will get them for the rest of forever.

 I am not a people person, I hate being the center of attention, and to be up in front of people getting married.... it freaked me the heck out. I remember walking up there and just shaking, but the second he grabed my hand I was instantly calmed. He has this magic touch that I cannot even describe :D

 With him I feel like myself like I am finally at home. He is perfect in my eyes... I would not change a thing.

 If people knew what this kiss meant to us you would not be able to help yourself from screaming! We were finally US! We had waited two long years for this day to come and here it was in a second, everything that had happened in the past was history... it is our turn to make our own history.

Marraige is not an easy thing.... I will work hard on it today as will James and then tomorrow we will wake up and it wont be any easier. But as James always says could you imagine life without a challenge? There would be absolutely no point in even being here. James and I have figured this out and applied it to life where ever we go. We sometime laugh and joke because, I will say let do this or lets do that or vice versa and he will say that sounds super hard..... our response is always, "Do we ever do easy?" The truth James and I have never gone the easy route.... never. Even when we know we should have we dont. But that is why our lives are so great, we take the path less traveled we do things different but we learn together we are growing together everyday. I would not take it any other way.

 At age fifteen James and I got pregnant before we were married with a little girl. For most of our family when they read this they may be shocked and when my kids read this I am hoping they will be old enough to understand that it was not a smart decision. But James and I actually planned to have a baby at this time. James had been sent to a boys school and was not allowed to see me or anyone for that matter for 10 months. It was the hardest most saddest part of my life so far. I still have mixed up thoughts over it, but I have learned to forgive and forget. He was sent there, because we were dating and his parents did not agree with that and also they could not get along. I now realize that if I had been in a situation like his parents were I would have probably flipped out to maybe not to the extent, but I would have wanted to save my son all the same. So there we were 10 months after him being gone and we would do anything to never be seperated again. And so thats what we did we knew if we got pregnant that our parents would never keep apart that we would have this connection, and so a baby was made.

 When we found out we were still shocked even though it was planned, we were scared they were going to take us apart anyway. Instead his family was headed for a family vacation in California and I was asked to go. This was a great oppurtunity to get away from our small town and just focus on eachother and our plans. In all these pictures we are pregnant with our little girl.

 I misscarried 1 month and 1/2 into my pregnancy. This is where I learned I was not invincible, that I could and would break at one point. I has always not shown to much emotion from being hurt in the past, but this devastation brought my emotions to a whole new level. I learned things about myself that I never realized before. I truelly believe god did what he did for a reason. In my eyes he knew James and I should be together so he let things work the way they did, but he knew we were not ready for that baby. James and I have ever since dreamed about having another baby and I know that God works in amazing ways and that soon it will happen.... when we are ready for that great journey together :)

 These corn dogs were the best thing ever! We had a beach house and the walk to this little corn dog shop was less than a minute away. mmmm good.

 We felt so at peace here in California, like everything was starting to fall into place. James asked me in California to marry him. It was at sunset on the beach everything I have ever dreamed of.... it was perfect, not to mention I was engaged to an amazing guy. He is and was my rock. He held his head high and was not ashamed and he made me know that he would be the one guy who would never let me go.

 Silly:D

 I miss the beach, we have promised eachother that whenever we are pregnant we will head back to California. Somtimes I smell something that smells like the beach and I am taken back to so many memories of our little family being together. We chose to name our baby girl Kapri. I miss her everyday and just cannot wait to hold her. James doesnt show it half as much as I do, but he knows just as I do that God has a plan and that things happened the way they were meant to happen.

 We became closer not only us, but to James family as well which was much needed. There were many hard feelings between my family and his family and just us in general. Here I began to understand a little more about life, about myself. I found God in this instance and saw the miracle he gives to people everyday. James family is great example to me on just how great God is. Without him nothing would exist.

We are happy with where we are and who we are. We have made mistakes, but we have fixed them. We love eachother and work hard everyday to keep our marriage strong. With God you cannot fail.